These fears for me have even materialized into dreams. I have dreams that my friends who are adopting get pregnant and have to put the adoption on hold, I have dreams that I am pregnant and I don't tell David until I am like 8 months pregnant.
Do you have this fear? Not that getting pregnant is at all bad, but it is definitely something that you want to be prepared for, and for me and my type A personality it should definitely be planned!
Oh well, I am feeling a little tired, I better go take the test!